Posts by Chasie

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  • Need.

    Going along with ghtyfkjfk’s post ‘how to ask for what you need’. Man o man is that tough to do sometimes. I’ve been wondering about that also.. “There isn’t a safe referral person in my area.  I need a script.  Would I first ask if they knew of the book?  And then what if I…

  • Stuck.

    I don’t know what to do. I’m in college and didn’t make it to SAFE yet. I hope that somehow I can go next summer over break. Oh how that seems so far away. I’m just scared that things won’t work out i.e. parent’s (they control my $) , insurance company paying, yada yada. How…

  • Trying NOT to SI.

    The last time I self harmed was on September 11th. Right now I’m struggling w/ urges and a vicious cycle of rampant thoughts. My only relief is writing. Well and talking to my t. I’m in college, my grades are good I have A’s. It’s just so hard to be mugging on the outside and…

  • Struggling.

    Since I am in college and my classes start next week.. I’m going to have to wait to get into the program. I just hope that at some point next summer it happens. I mean people that don’t self abuse have a hard time understanding (or at lest w/ my luck). Ha. I don’t believe…