Posts by rugby17

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  • struggles…

    these past few weeks have been really bad for me.  i even had to stay in the hospital overnight once after a really bad night.  my ex gf, who i was living with until i recently kicked her out, is dating one of my good friends.  at least she used to be, she is no…

  • growing because of you

    I haven’t SIed for just a couple months, it does feel like longer, and just recently I’ve thought about it a little bit more.  I don’t know if i’ll be allowed to play on the rugby team, i lost my best friend over a lie someone spread, my ex-gf and i live together and things…

  • doing well…

    this is my first post on here that isn’t about the research i am doing for a class.  i used to s.i. as recently as a month ago and even though i haven’t been posting on here reading these entries has been beneficial for me and  i’ve learned a lot.  i haven’t even wanted to…

  • Class Project

    I am conducting some ethographic research for a grad school class and I have to do one life history interview that is due this Thursday.  My research is on individuals who do or have engaged in self-injurious behavior and interact with others through online communities.  If you have any questions about my research feel free…