Posts by Pam L.

This is a “trigger-free” site. Please do not use language containing graphic descriptions of Self Injurious behaviors. Words such as self injury, self harm, and the initials S.I. will be approved. Be mindful of swear words which are inappropriate and offensive to minors and others. This site is monitored and anyone found to continually violate these conditions will be removed from this entire blog site. Please follow S.A.F.E. A LTERNATIVES’ philosophy and help us maintain a “trigger-free” blog. Thank you.

If you have thoughts of suicide call: 911, 800 – SUICIDE (784-2433), or go to the nearest emergency room.

• SAFE Blog

  March 28th, 2017 by Pam L.

  Posted in Messages from S.A.F.E., Uncategorized | 7 Comments

  Hi all, As one of the blog moderators, I am aware this blog isn’t being used very often.  I’m often sad when I see people reach out for help, and my hope is that people will respond and offer support.  That’s what this blog is here for.  I’ve been proud to see people use it…

• I hope…….

  November 8th, 2015 by Pam L.

  Posted in Adults Connection, Messages from S.A.F.E., Parents Connection, S.A.F.E. Alumni, Uncategorized | No Comments

  Hello all, I’m one of the blog moderators, and I’m noticing that the blog is not very active these days.  My favorite thing about this blog is that it’s a safe place on the internet for people to go and  be able to give and receive some support.  There are so many places on line…

• Call for Subjects – on line study

  July 20th, 2015 by Pam L.

  Posted in Seeking Research Participants, Uncategorized | No Comments

  Please Help Us Learn More About Self-Injury!!! Eligible participants who complete the survey earn a $10 gift card! Hello. My name is Shana Franklin and I am a graduate student in the psychology department working with Dr. Shawn Cahill, Ph.D at the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee. I am currently conducting a research study examining non-suicidal self…

• There is hope, you are not alone

  August 12th, 2014 by Pam L.

  Posted in Messages from S.A.F.E., Uncategorized | 2 Comments

  We are deeply saddened by the death of Robin Williams. When many media reports focus on the issue of suicide, it can often bring up painful memories for suicide loss survivors, and can increase feelings of hopelessness in those who experience depression. Please remember that you are not alone. It takes a lot of courage…

• Self Injury Awareness Day 2014

  February 20th, 2014 by Pam L.

  Posted in Adults Connection, Messages from S.A.F.E., Parents Connection, S.A.F.E. Alumni, Uncategorized | No Comments

  Please join us in St. Louis, MO as we honor Self Injury Awareness day on February 28, 2014. Please click on this link for more information:  http://www.selfinjury.com/pdf/Feb28%20SI%20Awareness.pdf We hope you are able to join us, or let us know how you plan to honor Self Injury Awareness Day.  It can be by learning more about…

• Holidays

  December 30th, 2013 by Pam L.

  Posted in Adults Connection, Messages from S.A.F.E., Uncategorized | 1 Comment

  Holidays and the end of the year can be very busy and stressful times.  Especially if you struggle with self injury.  Seeing family can be good, but also very difficult.  I hope some of you will share your holiday experiences – good or not so good.  You may self injure and feel extremely alone.  That’s…

• Group therapy in Illinois

  August 28th, 2013 by Pam L.

  Posted in Uncategorized | No Comments

  Courage § Strength   § Hope § Change § Support Please Join Us For An 8-Week Group Therapy Program for Trauma, Eating Disorders & Self-Injury Recovery (Illinois) This is an 8-week group therapy program for individuals 16-years and older who have struggled with trauma, and also eating disorders and/or self-injury.  This group is for individuals who…

• Cornell University: Survey for Parents of someone who self injures

  July 19th, 2013 by Pam L.

  Posted in Adults Connection, Parents Connection, Seeking Research Participants, Uncategorized | 1 Comment

  Parents, help us understand your experience  Does your child self-injure? Is he/she between the ages of 15-24?  Please help us help parents by participating in a brief survey of your experiences. Parents are the most important allies a self-injurious youth can have. Results of this study will be used to create support materials and strategies for parents…

• Online info and Support for PARENTS of youth who self injure

  July 19th, 2013 by Pam L.

  Posted in Adults Connection, Messages from S.A.F.E., Parents Connection, Uncategorized | No Comments

  Review Healing Forward: An Online Information and Support Program for Parents of Youth who Self-Injure Are you or someone you know a parent of a teenager between the ages of 12-20 years old who self-injures without the intention of committing suicide?  (Please note, forms and survey may contain triggering language). To learn more, see the informational flyer…

• Additional blog safety – an FYI

  July 9th, 2013 by Pam L.

  Posted in Messages from S.A.F.E., Uncategorized | No Comments

  Hi All, I wrote about this in my other post from SAFE, but wanted you all to be aware there will be more secure steps for when you log onto the blog and make posts/comments.  Again, this is for your safety and privacy.  There has been a lot of computer generated spam coming into the…