I have met this girl over the Internet. I met her by trying to help her with her depression. We eventually decided on a plan: for her to tell her 26 year old brother, and for them to tell their parents together. A month later, we’ve become great friends. I really care about her and we love each other very much. However, she still has not followed through with our plan. Today she admitted she self-harms. I had no idea what to do. What I ended up doing was making her promise me that the next time she has the urge to self-harm, she would tell me. I also gave her a deadline. I gave her ten days to tell her older brother about her depression. The goal is for her to get professional treatment. I was wondering if what I did was right and what else I should do. Please help me. Thank you in advance.