I used to frequent this website.I had a lot of issues with self harm.I was doing okay but I presently started again.I don’t know what to do I need to know how to handle a situation I don’t want to deal with a friend and he has me so stressed out that I started self harming again.in more then just the ways I was before and I don’t know what to do.I have to move in with him in less then ten days and I’m freakingng out.what do I do?
It seems clear that this person is not a positive addition in your life. Anything that provokes you to harm yourself should be removed. I am quite sure it isn’t as easy as I just stated since your moving together. May be you can have a conversation with him about your relationship. Another option could be is to write him a letter expressing how you feel. If you are fearful of confrontation. Have a mutual friend go with you to talk to this person. Evaluate how relevant this person is in your life. Ask yourself, does he bring me joy or pain. Your life is very important to someone and I’m sure that someone would love to hear you express yourself to them about this situation. Just an outsider looking in. Praying for your victory in this situation.