I am parent to a teenage girl who I try to talk to about injuring, if I talk to her she gets upset and says she is not. but clearly is, she refuses to talk to me and refuses to talk to anyone else. I had her in therapy for a while and refused to talk. I know when and if she is ready she will but I hold my breath everyday. Worry and get chest pains, wonder if when she acts happy she is happy. she is newer to this behavior. I try to keep her occupied with things but not sure what to do. I even told her if she did injure herself I would not be mad that I would talk with her and try to help her do different things for help. I don’t think she is a huge danger but I am always worried, cry a lot and even I know everyone says its not my fault cant help to think of all the things I could have done differently to have changed this.