I recently learned that my 13 year old daughter tried  SI.  We noticed it quickly and it was confirmed by a friend of hers that was worried about her.   She had learned of  SI from a new friend /neighbor that has been SI for several years.  We consulted with her counselor at school and then she did 10 weeks with an outpatient therapist.  We started family meetings weekly to help her.   The neighbor had been away for months now at a Psychiatric hospital.  I hear she will be home soon and school is going to let out in a few weeks.  I am terrified this girl is going to erase all the hard work and my daughter will try SI again.   Do we distance them?  Will being a supportive friend hurt or harm our daughter? This is all new territory for us and we are not sure what to do.