I don’t know what to do…How do I connect with someone, and get them to open up to me?  And to share their feelings, thoughts, experiences, and so forth.  It hasn’t been long, but to me it’s taking forever.  I just want to be closer.  I know that my situation is complicated, but I can’t stop thinking about this person, I know that we are meant to be close.  He pulls away from me, and keeps me at arms length, while blatantly flirting with others in front of me.  He is driving me crazy.