i don’t like boys at all. shall i tell you all my story? k. so i like my friend’s boyfriend and he likes me back… i know it isn’t right because of girl code but what can we do? it really isn’t our faults we fell for each other. well, i had a boyfriend and he has a gf… what we were going to do was break up with them so we could be together. i did it yesterday and then he said that he was going to wait to break up with his gf. well, i thought about it for a long time and i realized that i can’t do that to my friend, she’s so happy with him. i told him not to break up with her and stuff and so he’s not gonna… even though he told me he had no type of feelings for her. now we’re just friends and when we talk it’s just really awkward. on this website he said something to her about loving her so much and that she was his princess and he was gonna love her forever and he was so happy she’s his. i’m just here like, you told me you had no feelings for her and you loved me.. k. basically, the main reason as to why i self injure is because of boys! and now i really wanna s.i but i know i can’t, i haven’t since July of last year! i can’t break it. but then again, i always think “you’ll feel better so just do it.” but i haven’t.. why break it? but yeah. anyone can give me advice on what to do, i’m dying here. :/
Boys are the root of a.lot of problems. It’s just the truth. Anyway, if you’ve decided not to pursue any kind of romantic relationship with him, then you haven’t really got anything to lose- except your friend. If he’s telling you he likes you and not her, but then he tells her that he loves her ans always will, he’s lying to one of you no matter what. Both of you deserve better than him. I would warn your friend that he’s not like who he seems to be. If she can get away from him now, the sooner the better. If he does love her, he’s a player for trying to get with you too. If he doesn’t love her and he really does love you, he would have broken io with her. He wants the best of both worlds. He doesn’t sound worth you or your friend’s time. I know it’ll be really hard and she probably loves him, but you’ve got to warn her about him. If you don’t your friendship could take a hit. Good luck!
And about SIing, you have come so far. You’re strong and don’t need it anymore. Even though you want to sometimes, you don’t need it. Look how far you’ve come!
That’s a tought one. I used to make myself never SI if I was having a boy issue, cuz I figured I has a million better reasons to SI but of course that didnt last. When it comes to guys..All I can say is, find one that at LEAST seems to be 100% real. Not with anyone else, or saying anything like what he said to you, then About her. That’s just wrong and shady. Don’t let him be the reason you take a step backward