My friend is having trouble being herself lately, she has started to injure herself and is not caring about things she used to care ALOT about.. Can someone give me ideas and things i can say or do to help her?
dont be judgemental but talk to her listen to whats going on. tell her your therefore her if she needs talk if u judge her tel her not do it she going want do more i no frm experise im still trying stop it takes time its like dieasea for us u can go months evn years then go bak. tell her u dont like see her pain u want help let her no u care but not trying take her injuring she has want stop when she ready she will if you push her to stop or giver her ultmatve it make her wanna do it mre.
Ok first of all, get her to sit down, make sure she listens, dont let her talk until you are done talking. Let her know how much you care about her, and make herknow it is hurting you too. Let her know you are someone she can rely on, and that whenevershe feels like SIing she should talk to someone. Also, she should know that SIing is NOT ok.
Best of luck!
Most importantly let her know you care about her and that you notice. Her knowing that you notice how she’s changed and acting, not caring anymore about things she used to; hearing that she’s important and not invisible. Telling her all of that will make her feel better right off the bat. Then you have to be straight with her. Make sure she lets you just talk. She needs to really listen to what you have to say. Let her know that you’re concerned or scared and miss your friend. Don’t be hurtful, but don’t sugarcoat anything. If you’re too nice then she won’t treat it like a big deal and she won’t even try to stop. If you’re angry or hurtful, then she’ll close up and keep doing the same things. Try and just make her understand that you care and want the best for her. And that you miss how she used to be. I hope this helps
dont be judgemental but talk to her listen to whats going on. tell her your therefore her if she needs talk if u judge her tel her not do it she going want do more i no frm experise im still trying stop it takes time its like dieasea for us u can go months evn years then go bak. tell her u dont like see her pain u want help let her no u care but not trying take her injuring she has want stop when she ready she will if you push her to stop or giver her ultmatve it make her wanna do it mre.
Ok first of all, get her to sit down, make sure she listens, dont let her talk until you are done talking. Let her know how much you care about her, and make herknow it is hurting you too. Let her know you are someone she can rely on, and that whenevershe feels like SIing she should talk to someone. Also, she should know that SIing is NOT ok.
Best of luck!
Most importantly let her know you care about her and that you notice. Her knowing that you notice how she’s changed and acting, not caring anymore about things she used to; hearing that she’s important and not invisible. Telling her all of that will make her feel better right off the bat. Then you have to be straight with her. Make sure she lets you just talk. She needs to really listen to what you have to say. Let her know that you’re concerned or scared and miss your friend. Don’t be hurtful, but don’t sugarcoat anything. If you’re too nice then she won’t treat it like a big deal and she won’t even try to stop. If you’re angry or hurtful, then she’ll close up and keep doing the same things. Try and just make her understand that you care and want the best for her. And that you miss how she used to be. I hope this helps