so im 11 weeks pregnant im scard. me n my boyfrnd been fighting alot i no he loves me but sometimes cant take it. today at work had flashbak want injure. i wish my grandma here help thru all this i want to injure so bad dealing with everthing i dont no how much longer i can hold my self togethr i need help
okay, slow down. Do NOT do anything drastic. I know the SI urges are strong, but think of your baby. I found some research a few years ago that said behavioral patterns are genetic and can be passed down through generations. Injuring yourself is showing your baby that that is how to deal with things in this world, and its not! Is your boyfriend the only one who knows about the pregnancy? Try talking to a friend or counselor, parent, other family, etc. Anyone! Maybe your doctor would know a counselor for preportum depression or anxiety. talking out your feelings ALWAYS helps you feel better.
You are responsible for another human being right now, a baby who loves you because you are his passport to life. that is really exciting! The road may be a little rough, but you are going to bring in a life in nine months who you will love more than anyone you have ever known before. Embrace your pregnancy and your baby, and your future as a whole.
Dont make any drastic decisions because it is all going to work out. Just breathe. 🙂 and congratulations:)
It’s going to be okay. You can get through this and come.out strong. Right now you need to focus on yourself. You really have to take care of yourself and your baby. Whatever has been going wrong for you has to be felt with. Running will just put off dealing with the problem. Try not to injur. You’re a strong woman. You can do this. Try and get the bad feelings out in a way without injuring. Praying for you. It’s not easy
thank u both its hard n im going therpy. n noone knows but my bf n my thepsisty she wants me put on medcine w. everthing losing my grandma n being raped agin that happnd not to along a she try help me. my bf tries help me sometime he doesnt no how to even tho we argue alot latley i know we love eachother we been togthr 5 year as scard as i am i no he be here.
Therapy can be very helpful. I’m so sorry about what you’re going through.. just know you ARE loved and supported.