For all of us out there who SI.
Why do we blame ourselves for everything. Tell ourselves we are worthless. Or that we don’t deserve any better. But when we read someone else’s blog, we jump on the chance to tell them that they are worth everything in the world and that they aren’t a disappointment or anything like that, but we can’t tell ourselves that? I do this so often. It’s like I can tell other people how much they matter, but when it comes to myself I just fall short. Why do we do that? All of us do. Everyone on this site has. We need to take our words that we give to others, and apply them to ourselves. I just don’t know that I can do that.
okay..that’s all..
As one of the blog moderators, I have to say I couldn’t have said it better myself! What a great thing to notice, and what a great question to ask. If you think about it, I bet it doesn’t just apply to this blog either, but to life in general too. Something to think about for sure!
Pam
wow, thank you 🙂 🙂
I do the same thing like i can give advice to others but i can’t take my own advice. Or i tell them don’t SI it’s bad and don’t start but i can’t tell myself to not do it.
I’m the same way. It’s maddening, really.
It drives me crazy like why can’t we take our own advice?
because we think that it doesn’t apply to us. like we’re the exception.
I do it all the timeee oh boy i wish i can stop thinking that way. It’s as if we don’t deserve to apply it to our own lives. I don’t know.
I think it’s just this mindset that we get in. And once we’re in it it’s really hard to get out. Impossible really. LIke someone has to wake us up.
Hhaha i did it with you. I was like we’re normal and then i was like am i normal? remember ?
hahaha yes
WE NEED TO STOP DOING THAT…. i need to stop doing that at least. It’s just hard.
I need to as well. I just don’t know how I guess.
We need to realize we’re awesome 🙂 and that we deserve the same advice we give our friends. So we need to figure out a way to change that .. some how.