the reason i self injure is cause its a punishment for myself…and my family has a lot of problems…they dnt really wanna listen to mine…i wish they did…and i have nightmares of the past that are becoming a reality…i mean i was starting to forget wat happened…I let someone hurt me deeply and never spoke up…i shoulda…and now its my fault lives are ruined…
also my friends all tell me their problems, and never wanna listen to me abt mine…everytime i open up they say they have their own problems…
and even my sis says crying is wrong…i guess wat im trying to say is that since i cant cry or talk to anybody abt my problems, i turned to self harm as a way to punish myself but also as a coping or relief mechanism
Hey girl! I understand exactly where you are coming from… i’m going though the same thing
im glad someone does…and thanks for helping me…srry that u are gong through the same stuff
Your Right! I guess that’s why I haven’t stopped SIing and it’s my only way of coping. I also can’t cry and I really don’t have anyone to talk to. I mean I can talk to people, but when they ask how are you and you even hint at something being wrong well they drop the conversation and you never hear from them again.
I’m definitely on your side with this being the only way of coping with things.
Crying is not wrong. Crying is good! Cry all you want. That’s the misconception people have these days is how much crying is a sign of weakness. But it’s not. It is actually a sign of being brave, of taking a stand to your feelings. How did you ruin lives? If you want to talk to me, email me at w0368999@selu.edu I will help you, with no biases. If you just want someone to listen, I will.