My boyfriend and I have just broken up. I dated him the same time last year, and we broke up on the same day this year.
I’m not nearly as upset as I was last time around, but he wants to stay friends, which is hard to do knowing he got me all this stuff that now reminds me of him.
I’ve been a self harmer for years, and haven’t injured in three months, maybe four, I was doing fine and loving the way I felt without it, but then, we broke up, and I just got sad and thought SI would help. It didn’t. Now I wanna know ways I can get over him without setting myself up with more scars. Does anyone have any advice?