Hi everyone, I just found out about 2 months ago that my daughter has injured herself. I was very supportive and immediately made an appointment with the therapist. She has been going since. I also read three books on the subject and read countless articles, but I still seem to be at a loss. After an argument and she told me to get out, I said that I knew what she was going to do to just go ahead since I didn’t know what else I can do for her. I feel horrible because this morning I saw the marks. What have I done? I cannot believe that I could have said such a horrible thing to her. I love her with all my heart and if I could trade places with her I would in a second.  I am walking a fine line of being the parent and being a mother who is scared to death of saying the wrong thing and triggering an injuring incident.