I know that I am jsut a teenager. But I have seen it in my mother’s eyes when she looks at me. I see it when she looks at my scars. I want you to know that jsut because you fighting or yelling doesnt make it your fault. We made the deicion to IS own our own that’s why it’s called SELF injury. The things that happen around us affect us. Some parents don’t understand that. It might not have to anything with us, but it still affects us cause we have to listen and absorb it. Sometimes you think we aren’t listening but really we are. I want you to stop blaming yourself. Our choice of IS has nothing to do with your parenting. Cause no matter what we will always love you.