what am i supposed to do when people beg me to stop???? i have been a SI for about a year and ive never felt more alive in my life. so my question is this, WHY SHOULD I HAVE TO CHANGE MY LIFE FOR OTHER PEOPLE??
Don’t know what to say when people beg you to stop,but for me I told them that i’m trying,but it’s not as easy as it sounds.So maybe you could tell them that if you are trying to stop,but if not then sorry don’t know what you can tell them.About the whole thing with changeing YOUR life for people.You should change your life for you not for others I used to think oh let me just do this so they can leave me alone,but i’m no longer like that.I change because I want to people CAN’T make you change only God and yourself can CHANGE you.If people are telling you you need to stop it’s cause they care about you and don’t want to see you harming yourself,BUT I will say from experiance you WILL feel better when you stop when i’m even one day free from injuring myself I feel good about myself because I am trying to stop because I WANT to for me not other people.Even though I don’t know you I still care about you hope even a little bit of this helps if not maybe it’ll help someone else who will read this.
i have been though the same thing. they say “why do you need that? you could always talk to me” i find it that if people haven’t done it before they have no idea where you are coming from and how hard it is to stop and how you feel after doing it. they just see someone they care about hurting themselves and the y feel like they cant do anything about it but they want to try. and they beg you because they have no other way of getting you to stop. there thinking oh ok ill beg her/him to stop and because he/she cares about me soooo much then he will stop and the problem is solved. its never about how much we care about those ppl and how much we need it do it. for me without doing it i feel like i cant breath and the walls are coming down on me. but they just want you to “be better” and stop SI. theres really nothing you can say to those people because they dont understand . they just will try everything to help you because they love you
Don’t know what to say when people beg you to stop,but for me I told them that i’m trying,but it’s not as easy as it sounds.So maybe you could tell them that if you are trying to stop,but if not then sorry don’t know what you can tell them.About the whole thing with changeing YOUR life for people.You should change your life for you not for others I used to think oh let me just do this so they can leave me alone,but i’m no longer like that.I change because I want to people CAN’T make you change only God and yourself can CHANGE you.If people are telling you you need to stop it’s cause they care about you and don’t want to see you harming yourself,BUT I will say from experiance you WILL feel better when you stop when i’m even one day free from injuring myself I feel good about myself because I am trying to stop because I WANT to for me not other people.Even though I don’t know you I still care about you hope even a little bit of this helps if not maybe it’ll help someone else who will read this.
i have been though the same thing. they say “why do you need that? you could always talk to me” i find it that if people haven’t done it before they have no idea where you are coming from and how hard it is to stop and how you feel after doing it. they just see someone they care about hurting themselves and the y feel like they cant do anything about it but they want to try. and they beg you because they have no other way of getting you to stop. there thinking oh ok ill beg her/him to stop and because he/she cares about me soooo much then he will stop and the problem is solved. its never about how much we care about those ppl and how much we need it do it. for me without doing it i feel like i cant breath and the walls are coming down on me. but they just want you to “be better” and stop SI. theres really nothing you can say to those people because they dont understand . they just will try everything to help you because they love you