Hello, I started SIing in high school and did it through half of college.  I stopped doing it after I got into a serious relationship, and kept it off even after that relationship ended.  However, I went through an assortment of emotionally damaging relationships and eventually started SIing this year.  I have tried to tell some people, but I feel like it is hard to connect with them.  I need to find somebody to talk with so that I can stop doing this and start repairing my confidence.  I don’t have health insurance and cannot afford expensive counseling, but I work full time.  What do you recommend?