I went to see my counselor today for my 3rd session.It went pretty good I guess I thought about telling her about my friend,but I didn’t .I really want to for some reason,but I don’t know how she will react,and I don’t want her to react in like a negative way.Should I tell her? I don’t know what to do i’m constantly thinking about i’m straight,but it’s awkwardly flatering that she likes me.I find it flatering cause this is THE FIRST TIME anyone has a crush on me.Well I think this 6th grader had a crush on me cause I was outside and his friend Antonio came up to me,and was like hey you see that guy with the Gatorade bottle he likes you when I looked at him and all his friends and him where smiling. Ugh but I don’t know I wanna tell her,but I don’t know how she will react.
The more your counselor knows about you, the more they can help you. Try and remain as open and honest as possible – the only person you are hurting is yourself when you hold back. I do know it takes time to build trust with a counselor, so take it at your own pace and keep on practicing your trust with her 🙂 It will get easier over time.
^^ exactly. the more honesty you give to your therapist or counselor and others around you, the easier it is to be honest with yourself. they are there to help you. therapists are there to help you find solutions, solve things, and move on from them so that you can continue on with your life. they need to hear what you have to say, they need to hear everything you have to say, so they can help you figure out what to do with it. i believe you should tell her this, as well as everything else that’s ever on your mind. by letting it out to her, you help yourself, too.
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Ok thank you i’ll definatelly keep this in mind.