i’ve injured for 2 years and i stopped when i met my boyfriend i’ve been 3 months injury free but thats only because of hima. he’s always there for ma and i love him more than anything but its so hard to talk to him when i want to injure myself because he thinks its something he did but then i’m so attached to him it helps me stop but latl y i can’t bring myself to tell him i want to and i don’t how to stop myself please halp me
Try to find an alternative to harm. it sometimes help for me to draw or play music. And it is always helpful to tell the ones you love about it. try to start a conversation off with ‘ can I tell you a secret?’ or maybe ‘can i tell you something important?’ it always helps to open up. hope that was of help 🙂
yeah tell him you cant move forward if you let fear hold you back if he really loves you and wants to help than he will understand (or try to) it will be a step forward a small one perhaps but one towards progress…… best wishes to you.. 🙂