To hate someone because of what they’ve done, especially if they haven’t changed a bit or apologized for everything? Should I think that there’s good in everyone, and stick to that? because right now i’m incapable of that. My stepdad thinks I should talk to my dad, but is it because he doesn’t feel like he is ready or able to assume the role of my father, like i want him to? my dad was the worst person in the world to me, someone i am incapable of forgiving. my stepdad won’t understand that though, and it upsets me a little.