its been 6 months since i si-ed…. my parents found out, which helped alot, i was trying to quit when they discovered them …. it was really hard. everyone thinks i have everything going for me-they dont know my story. i no longer si but now i’m facing something different-eating disorders. anyone else ever make that jump? i dont know what to do and need help… any and all advice would be wonderful.
I use to injure to lose weight. dont do it you feel horrible everyday.
i’m trying to fight it, somedays i’m successful but others not so much, sometimes i feel like i’m draging my friends down with me, that isn’t at all my motive amd i hate myself even mooe for doing this.
I lost so many friends for all my issues, because some people just couldn’t handle it. I’ve learned to put it behind me instead of drowning people in my drama. Don’t get me wrong, letting your feelings out is necessary, but don’t just do it all the time, it’s like unloading your baggage constantly. There has to be room in your life for things other than talking about yourself. You’re not a bad person for talking out what’s bothering you though, don’t think that for a second.
<3 always rescue.
I’ve learned that (the hard way) too. I’ve found that sometimes you just have to write it out or “speak it out” and then just let it go. Send the email to yourself or whatever and then move on (When things get really bad, its always good to get the support of others)
Another thing that has helped me is to find something I can be passionate about – dance, music, cooking..whatever “floats your boat” so to speak!! 🙂
I agree with rescue, its good to talk out what’s bothering you. I can tell you from personal experience, its much better than keeping it all in!
We are all here for you and for each other.
((hugs))