me and my boyfriend worked things out after he figured out about me SI’ing last time and he told me he didnt mean a thing he said he told me he was always gonna be there no matter what . so today he drove me home from school and i noticed that he SI’ed and i asked him why he did and he said it was because he was soo stressed about me and that he was worried and couldent sleep and he wondered if he SI’ed if it would make him feel better well it turns out he said it felt like a huge weight was lifted off his sholders and i keep tourturing myself and i couldent take it so today i SI’ed again and i havent told him yet… is it my fault that he hurt himself and should i tell him that i SI’ed again

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