There is this guy that won’t stop breathing down my back making sure I don’t SI again. Its so frustrating because he never stops and it makes me wanna so bad cause he is stressing me out! I’m not sure how to tell him to back off and quit stressing me out cause he is causing me to want to SI again and be nice about it. I understand that he cares but this is to much. The way he acts make me lie to him when I do SI. I don’t know how much more of him I can take. He is so….I don’t know the word right now, but its hard to live life with this. The last time I told him that I SI’ed he flipped out,stared yelling,and went crazy and made me SI again that day. I don’t know how to tell him that he is making me SI. Help?
I don’t know what role this guy plays in your life but I’m in a similar situation so I understand how it can become a vicious circle. He may think he’s helping you but obviously he’s making it more difficult for you. I think that honesty is the best policy but it’s not the easiest thing to tell someone. I can’t tell my man that he does the same thing to me. He goes crazy about it too when I SI. They act like that because they’re scared and unsure of how to handle the situation. But if his haunting you is putting you at risk then you need to put your foot down and stick up for yourself. You’re fight is very important and you shouldn’t allow someone to make it more difficult than it already is. Be honest.. Even if it’s hard for you. I completely understand where you’re at. You’re not alone. If you need someone to talk to please let me know. It’s good to talk to someone who understands. Good luck! Put you first because you’re worth it. 🙂
I should take my own advice here huh? Easier said than done but I’ll work on it.