So. I’m hanging out with this guy who I really like on Sunday. But, that’s kinda taking the backseat right now. My best friend is pregnant. I’m scared for her, and I don’t really know what to do, and neither does she. We’re both dancers, and a baby would change her future as a dancer so much. I don’t want to bother her w my S.I. problems right now, because I know that she has a lot to deal with. But if any of you guys had any advice on her situation, it would be greatly appreciated. 🙂
Here’s a poem I wrote about her.
Decisions
A girl caught up in a
Dream,
A nightmare.
She wants to wake up.
It was just a regular Tuesday,
Until he stole from her
Her dignity,
Her dreams,
Her future.
Now she lives in fear,
Of the decisions she has to make
Sleepless nights,
Falling too fast.
Should she make the life
Inside of her
short?
End it all before its too late?
No one would have to know.
It would be a secret burden,
A heartbreak that she hides.
Should she give it up?
Let somebody else
Raise the beauty growing inside of her,
And let them steal away all of the the memories,
That are just waiting to be made?
Should she
Let them steal away her future?
But at the same time,
Let them make it possible
For her to live her dreams.
Or should she embark,
On a stormy journey,
And brave the fierce winds,
And the torrential rain.
Should she embrace the future,
And the unchangeable past,
And make the memories
Last
Forever?
She has some decisions to make.
Once again, any advice would be appreciated. 🙂
Staystrong.
I can see how difficult life must be for your friend right now,
I think that it’s just important for her to really think hard and long about what she thinks is best for her.
If her dancing career is truly that important to her and she doesn’t think that she could continue on with a child then maybe abortion or adoption are her best options.
But if she wants to take the responsibility for her baby and keep it, then she just has to be prepared for the tough road to come.
As far as you and your s.i, I think that it’s still a big deal even if your friend seems to be having problems right now to.
You can be there for her, but don’t forget about yourself in the long run.
Oh, and congrats on hanging out with the guy you really life! woot woot 🙂
Thanks. 🙂
Yeah, she just told her parents today, and even though I just saw her a couple hours ago, I miss her incredibly already. And she was crying, and she said she really needs a hug and i just watched my sister’s keeper which is an incredibly heart-wrenchingly sad movie, but its absolutely amazing. I’m just so scared. And I can’t bother people with my S.I.ing right now, because everybody has their own stuff to deal with. I just don’t know how to help her or what to do, or what to say.
Staystrong.
Of course, Well Congrats to her on telling her parents and everything. Yeah that movie is pretty amazing. It’s so sad though. And I hope that she gets through it all happily. Well, about your S.I you can talk to me as much as you’d like. I’ll listen and help in anyway that I can. I think as long as you just be a good friend and are there for her through it all, then she’ll appreciate that.
Melody.
Yeah, I’m trying to stick by her. But I had a relapse yesterday… it’s not only her, but this is adding to the stress and I don’t know how I can be there for her if I’m struggling myself.
Staystrong.
Well, if she knows that you’re supportive then that is enough.
As your friend, she should accept that you have things to deal with too.
S.I is an issue that needs to be dealt with. The longer you push it to the side because of things that seem “bigger,” the more it becomes harder to fight. I will talk to you whenever you need someone.