Everything is good in my life, but my urges have been horrible lately. Yesterday I gave into my urges, so it was the first time I self injured myself in 8 months. I feel like a failure. Now the urges are harder and I keep thinking about what I did yesterday and I wanna do it again.  I just don’t know why I’m doing at this moment in my life. I mean I have a job I love, I’m attending Argosy University, and I’m living with roomies. Also I have abused substances in 8 months. I guess it’s cuz I’m so stressed with all this and the facts that my sister is dying and my girlfriend is using and engaging in Eating disorder behaviors. Now I’m stuck with the question: should I tell my counselor? Please give me some advice.