How Do I go about a lunch with a person that knows that I SI. I know during this lunch they will ask me about it. Im fine talking to them about it I think but its been 3 or 4 years since I first told her about it. This person is an adult, the only thing that I am worried about is her telling my mom about it again. I just don’t want to go through that drama of talking to my mom about it. I really don’t like being in emotional situations.
any words of advice for this lunch meeting?
You should only talk about what you are comfortable with. If this is a person you can be totally honest with and they ask about the SI, tell them the truth about how you are uncomfortable talking about it because you are nervous they may bring it up to your parents, etc…
Sometimes talking can be a very good thing, but at the same time you have to be comfortable with it too.
Hope this helps.