I read the blogs of all these girls that are going through so many terrible things in their lives and I feel like I don’t have the right to SI. I must be completely worthless trash. people have it so much worse than me and I still SI. I havn’t done it in a while but I can feel it building up if that makes sense. I honestly don’t even know why I write on here I am not even worthy to be a part of this because I don’t have a good reason to do what I do. I don’t know.
There is no good reason to S.I.
yes.. i will say that it does help relieve stress or pressure or tension or anything you may be feeling you cant get rid of any other way..
you could be a rape victim, you could be in an abusive relationship, you could have serious self esteem issues, you could be having trouble with school or friends, or you could just be depressed..
but there are other things you can do to help yourself..
S.I.ing becomes a habit, you get comfortable in it, and thats why you continue to do it.
there is no being “worthy” of doing it.
no one should have to hurt themselves to feel better..
but we do, and it doesn’t matter the reasons why we do it..
its the fact that we need help, and we feel like there is nothing we can do.
Don’t think like that. There are people that have things happening to them because of other people, people that have things going on because of problems with themselves, and people that have both. To do it, you must have something going on. Doesn’t matter if it’s a small problem, it’s still a problem. And I think the same thing. About how people have it so much harder than me…But then, you have to think, there are also people that have it easier than me…and they could be doing the exact same thing…If you SI, it’s because of something. Your NOT trash. And I know what you mean with the building up. And you ARE worthy! Your worthy of help and of people trying to help you.
Hey whether or not you feel like you have a good reason you do still SI and that in itself is a problem. Don’t feel like your unworthy because obviously there is a reason you’re doing it because you have some kind of hurt and there is no need to compare it to other peoples. If your hurting thats all that matters dont judge it based on the depths of others because nobody feels in the same ways. Please try though to talk to people about things because if you let SI go it can get out of hand and then you become addicted. People care about you and love you just remeber that and keep your head up:)
You are worthy of talking here.
SI is an addictive release, and like alot of releases not good for you; no matter how much “better” you may feel at the time.
It doesn’t matter why you do it. The only thing that matters is that its being done, and getting out.
I think that way too, that other people have it so much harder and who am i to use SI for something that is reletivly so “nothing”. But its not nothing. ANY hurt at all that can lead to SI is NOT nothing. You are NOT nothing.
Because you are on this site, obviously you have a problem. So do I. It doesn’t matter about what happened to others, your SIing is about you, and no one else. I SI because I have depression, which has probably always been there. Everyone feels pain for different reasons; most haven’t experienced tragedies, etc. This site is for solving the hurt, not comparing where it came from. If you need someone to talk to, feel free to email me at emilykrause10@gmail.com <3 Em