I have been in a relationship for over three years. We were injurers when we started going out. Since then we have both quit. Then I started again. And while I haven’t done it often, I feel like a failure that I lasted an entire year and started again. He feels like I do it to spite him. I feel like I do it because I’m sad, bored, lonely, and upset with myself. And honestly that sometimes I can convince myself it is not wrong to do it. He constantly bugs me about going to talk to someone, that I need help, he is worried. But I feel fine and can’t convince myself I have a problem again. Is it wrong to be an every-once-in-a-while injurer?