ok hi guys. i haven’t been on in a while i got a new one of thesse things! YAY!! okk i have stoppedd Sling good.. well… now i have this other issue ok long story short for about 3 years my granparents stole me from my famiyl and told me they hated me and ECT ok so after days of playing outside with there dogs i would go inside and my grandpa would be sexually abusive to me. this happend on a regular basic and he would hug me to tight and kiss me too much and other things.. well then one day i heard them screaming at eachother i over heard my grandmother say “YOU TOUCH HER AND I’LL KILL YOU”!!! so i was like what ?? cause i though it was normal.. so finally my mother took me home i hvae been home for a 1 year and let me tell ya it was tough.. but recenly i just realized what he did was wrong.. and.. i dont know what to do. oh and i havent had any contact wiht them for a year and GUESS what he’s coming over on sunday!! hahahah great right? Help please advice. and i dont want to tell my mom cause she was abused the same way and i dont want my grandfather to go to jail although in a way i do help!!
hey.. i think your def in a difficult situation because your a caring person and are tyring to protect your moms feelings, but your Life is about you. You have to be good to yourself, since no one ultimately will but you. I know its prob really hard, my friend in h.s. had her parents best friend abuse her and he would come over all the time, she told them once and i guess out of shock they blew it off. i think parents get just as confused sometimes as their kids do and don’t know what to do. I think you should def tell someone adult-wise to intervine so you don’t go thru that anymore. why let someone else’s deviances effect you and your life. i know he’s your grandfather but true lovefamilycaring isn’t what he giving back to you and thats def not fair.
yeah thank you i just dont know.. i need to go back to therpy and somehow tell some one somthing im in a bad place and i dont ant ot slip again
Tell someone you trust about what happend. I was kinda touched sexually by a teacher, and although it doesn’t affect me much (or do i think), this is YOUR life. this is about you and what you feel. if you think he should be in jail, tell someone.
and on a unrelated topic….
i recently told my mom and another close relative about my SI’ing. my mom won’t talk about it and the other relative who i told, works at my school and she called the school’s social worker. i’m just afraid that they’ll put me on meds or send me somewhere, like the crazy ward or something. i know i’m over reacting. but what was it like when you came out about ur SI and what do you do in therapy. they may send me there and i just wanna know what happens there.
okay, now i feel kinda dumb. i thought the date when u posted said the 10th, lol. i can’t read, lol. sorry about that 🙂
i posted something before that and for some reason it’s not showing, so just for get what i said earlier, lol