Hey
So, I haven’t written on here in ages and life has been lousy to say the least. My brother-in-law is being such a creep, he doesn’t act right in front of me. On morning when I was getting ready for school I went to the restroom and knocked on the door… he answered with NOTHING but his socks onL. Another time he asked my mom a totally inappropriate question… she said “I’d rather not talk about that”. If my mom and I ever told my sister she would NEVER believe us and that’s the truth. In my sister’s eyes her husband does no wrong and he does a lot wrong! A few years ago he cheated on her while they were on a camping trip and my sister found him and the “other girl”.… grrr!!! Why does my sister think he’s sooo “good”? My mom and I live with 4 other people (my sister, her husband, and their 2 kids) and we’re the only ones who EVER do work around the house and its sooo unfair!
School has been so stressful lately and I have no idea what to do. So far I’ve, getting good grades so that’s so not the problem. People make fun of me all the time, my mom says just to tell them off but I don’t wanna do that. My English teacher keeps asking if I’m “ok” because she knows that I SI she said “you know I’m here for you if you need me, right?” I’m like, I know. The thing is, I wanna talk to her but I’m nervous about spilling my feelings out because she could totally tell my mom and I really don’t want that to happen. I’m gonna have to talk to someone soon or I’ll explode from hold all these feelings inside. Well, I just thought I’d tell you how life is going. Please comment with advice… ANYTHING is good with me.
Caitlin
hey there,
Firstly, having your parents know is the HARDEST thing, but it can be really beneficial. My parents found out, and it felt like the world was crashing down, ending… but they got me a really good counselor who really helps. So maybe consider telling your mom, she seems like a strong person, and so do you. You can handle it.
I kinda know how you feel about the teacher situation, I sometimes really want to talk to my dance teacher about it, because she has really helped me in the past, but she doesn’t know about my S.I.ing. There’s only about three teachers that I want to know about it, though, so I’m scared that she’ll tell the director of the school and stuff. Also my parents don’t want me telling anybody. So only my close friends and cousin know. And I’m also scared as to how my teacher will react… I’m just scared in general. So for you, try telling your mom, it might help. Also, talk to your sister about this husband of hers. Let her know how much he creeps you out, I’m sure she cares about you! …and if you have any advice for me on whether or not to tell my dance teacher… it would be greatly appreciated.
Hang in there,
Staystrong.
Hey
Thanks for the advise . 🙂 My parents already know about my SI and what not. I’d tell my sister about it but I told her that her “husband” chocked me once… she said “I love him so you’re gonna have to deal with it.” 🙁 ugh…