For the past week I have had good reason to SI. However! I am choosing not to hurt the person I am supposed to love. Guys and girls, we need to start taking care of ourselves. Nobody else is going to. I am one of those people who SIs but, I agree, it isn’t a healthy coping mechanism. I think we can all agree on that. We can choose to use another tool. We really can. I know how severe the urges are, I know! I’m there almost every single day but I am living proof that it is possible not to injure, if for only, one day at a time, sometimes minute by minute. We can do it!!!!!!!!!!!