Im new at this and im hoping it can help. My parents banned me from seeing my bf cuz they think we are to young to be dating. I love him and I really need to see him. Hes one of the biggest reasons Im still here and taking him away has sent me back into a hole of darkness. im SI’ing and need help/advice. What would you do if you were me? My email is lt9510@yahoo.com if you think you can help.
Well now that you really can’t do much about seeing him, you need to crawl out of the dark hole you’re in, and fill it with other things. That dark hole, that deep pit, it’s called a void. A void is something you have when you feel emptiness, like something’s missing. You need to fill it with friends, resources like this blog, support from friends, maybe art and writing, other hobbies you like, music, and God. They are the greatest things for you, they are just simple parts of life that mean so much. Break out of a normal routine and use these things to find yourself. Because you are your own best friend, and you have to rely on yourself to be better…no one else can wave a magic wand and do it for you. You’re always loved and cared for, no matter what. You can live your life, you just have to find yourself first.
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i don’t know how old you are but maybe if you are very respectful a happy medium can be found with your parents. Ask them calmly and respectfully if you guys can sit down and talk. Ask them if you can work out a comprimise, maybe he won’t be your bf anymore , but will remain a close friend. You can promise (and mean it) that nothing will happen between you two that wouldn’t happend with any of your other friends. Agree there will be no physical contact and that you agree all time spent with him will be supervised, by them or someone they aprove of. I need to impress on you that you are asking for their trust if they agree to this , and it is very, very important that you stick to your word. They just might go for it, and at the very least they will likely appreciate that, you are being respectful. Also althought you may want him as a bf, isn’t it better to have him as just a friend then nothing at all. Didn’t mean to ramble, just some thoughts I pray they help. God bless