is it possible to be in a relationship with someon u think ur totallaty in love with and u know he loves u. and then all of sudden u happen to end up at your exes house one night. (my high school sweethart who was my first lovve, we dated for almost 4 yrs) and ur jus thre to hang outl, nothing is going on. its been over a yr since weve been broken up….we ar totally over each other right? but then i talk to his dad forevr and then i hug his dad and then i go and hug him. whn i hugged him somthing came over me. this feling jus shot into my body. i felt secure. i flt safe. i felt like nothing bad could ever haoppen to me again. what does this mean? i need advice i need thoughts. pleas help me figure myself out