ok i don’t get this people are always telling me oh you should just be independent you don’t need anything else but they don’t understand its not that easy sometimes just having yourself  isn’t enough  and you do need help i’ll admit sometimes you turn out to go to the wrong thing but being independent isn’t everything i can’t do stuff on my own i drive myself crazy because my thoughts start swirling to fast and i can’t handle it thats why i S.I because i panic because everything is to much so why should i be independent? why can’t i look for help when i need it? is that such a bad thing?