hey all..
so im new here. but with much in common with everyone.
ive been struggling with SI for a long time. and i finally reached several weeks of going with out it. but lately.. ive had the increasing urge to do it all over again and to throw all ive worked for away.. im so confused by it. i was so proud of myself.. and went several days without thinking about it. and the last week or so ive been a mess and cant stop thinking about it.. any advice?
Hey Brigid, First off Welcome to S.A.F.E it is a great website to get support. I can’t tell you how many times it has helped from relapsing.I know that urge is hard to fight. I went through the same thing. It was hard but I just knew that I could get better and be better than that. It is hard to stop thinking about i can tell you it is hard, but what i did at first was find other things like writing, and dancing more often in a snese I distracted myself from the thougths, And after a while they didn’t op into my head as often, and eventually they just stopped. But If you ever need anyone to talk to who understands what you are going through feel free to email me anytime. my email is dashdollie10@yahoo.com. Stay strong and don’t be afraid o ffalling it happens to us. Even the best fall down sometimes.
Peace, Love ,life
Melody
Hey Melody,
thank you for your encouraging words. they mean a lot. :]yeah.. fighting is difficult.. but im trying.
peace,
Brigid
Hey Brigid,
I totally understand what your saying, ive been si free for almost 3 weeks now, but the past couple days have been torture. I’m not too good with advice but if you ever just need someone to talk to feel free to email anytime. Iheartwater@hotmail.com =]
thank you so much! :]
and btw you can email me as well if you want, I of course understand. my email is: wildrose748@gmail.com