I recently found out that my little sister s.i.  At first i was mad because i just didnt understand why she would want to cause harm to her body.  Me and my sister were very close growing up and i recently joined the military and moved pretty far from home.  We dont speak as much as we used to and my family thinks its taking a toll on her emotionally and she is having a hard time finding herself.  I dont know if this is an influence from a friend or if its a cry for help. Either way i’m trying my best to understand her and her addiction.  I came to this website to seek advice to help and to have a better understanding so she doesnt feel like i’m judging her.  Please if anyone has any advice or suggestions please help me help her!