My daughter has a friend who I did not want her to be friends with, she was mean to her other friends and I could not understand why she want to stay friends with her. Anyway on going fighting in the house about this until one day my daughter said mom you do not understand. It took another few weeks of fights until my daughter broke down and told me she is SI. My daughter is the only one she talks to and calls her when ever she is feeling like or is SI herself. I have seen a change in my daughter since she as told me, like the weight has be lifted of her shoulders, but how do I help her help her friend? I cannot let anyone know I know, or my daughter fears her friend will stop talking to her, and if that was to happen and she really hurts herself my daughter would feel responsible. Need help for both anyone have any answer????