i am going through alot lately and i have gone back to S.I!my mother knows i used to in the past, she only got mad, and did not care, i need to tell her again because i know i need help, yet i dont know how!…plz help me to tell her
Maybe you can try writing her a letter? Even if you can’t give it to her, just writing out what would you like to say to her might help get your thoughts together in an organized way when you do talk to her.
Is there another trusted adult you can go to for help too? Maybe you can talk to them and then you can ask them to be with you when you talk to your mom about it.
It is good to hear your mom already knows about the problem though. Hopefully this time she will take it a little more seriously and help you get some help.
I felt exactly the same about 3 months ago. Honestly, the best thing to do is to sit down and talk to your mum. She will get angry, but you have to try and explain to her why you do it. My mum couldn’t understand why I did it, so she took me to see my doctor, and he recommended a councillor. The counselling helped me a lot, and I was able to explain much more clearly to my mum why I do it. Don’t keep all your feelings locked up inside you, because talking to no one really makes things a million times worse. Even if it’s not your mum, talk to someone who you know will listen and who you can trust. If you want to chat about anything, my emails redwedding17@googlemail.com
Don’t worry about it. The best thing to do is not stress about it. When I was doing S.I. no-one besides my closest friends knew. My mom is still completely oblivious, but towards the end my sister found out and told my aunt. i stopped after that. I don’t now why I just did. But I know if I do start SI again I’ll have to either tell my mom straight forward or go to my aunt for help. I hope that helps a little bit and if you just need to talk e-mail me @ marz.is.what.they.call.me@hotmail.com. 🙂
when i told my mother that i was doing S.I. i told her i think i need help and i wanted help because i really didnt want to do it anymore but i cant help it…
just tell her, the worst part in the whole situation (for me anyway) was stressing over my parents’ reactions, but when I finally told them it was like a huge burden was completely lifted off me. they were sad, dissapointed, anrgy, and frustrated…at first, but once they realized that it wasn’t about them, it was about me, they put me first and they helped me get through it. just trust your gut 🙂
i feel the best thing to do is to sit her down n tell her that you need help n tell her why n that all u really is support or her jst careing
Maybe you can try writing her a letter? Even if you can’t give it to her, just writing out what would you like to say to her might help get your thoughts together in an organized way when you do talk to her.
Is there another trusted adult you can go to for help too? Maybe you can talk to them and then you can ask them to be with you when you talk to your mom about it.
It is good to hear your mom already knows about the problem though. Hopefully this time she will take it a little more seriously and help you get some help.
I felt exactly the same about 3 months ago. Honestly, the best thing to do is to sit down and talk to your mum. She will get angry, but you have to try and explain to her why you do it. My mum couldn’t understand why I did it, so she took me to see my doctor, and he recommended a councillor. The counselling helped me a lot, and I was able to explain much more clearly to my mum why I do it. Don’t keep all your feelings locked up inside you, because talking to no one really makes things a million times worse. Even if it’s not your mum, talk to someone who you know will listen and who you can trust. If you want to chat about anything, my emails redwedding17@googlemail.com
you be ok
Don’t worry about it. The best thing to do is not stress about it. When I was doing S.I. no-one besides my closest friends knew. My mom is still completely oblivious, but towards the end my sister found out and told my aunt. i stopped after that. I don’t now why I just did. But I know if I do start SI again I’ll have to either tell my mom straight forward or go to my aunt for help. I hope that helps a little bit and if you just need to talk e-mail me @ marz.is.what.they.call.me@hotmail.com. 🙂
when i told my mother that i was doing S.I. i told her i think i need help and i wanted help because i really didnt want to do it anymore but i cant help it…
just tell her, the worst part in the whole situation (for me anyway) was stressing over my parents’ reactions, but when I finally told them it was like a huge burden was completely lifted off me. they were sad, dissapointed, anrgy, and frustrated…at first, but once they realized that it wasn’t about them, it was about me, they put me first and they helped me get through it. just trust your gut 🙂