“Hey D,You know I care about you and you know I think you’re a great girl. However I think I need to distance myself from you right now because I’m trying so hard to keep myself in recovery right now. I can’t keep putting all my energy into worrying about you and hoping you’re okay all the time. I really think you should check out that SAFE Alternatives program I told you about.Yes, writing is a good way for you to get your emotions out and I’m glad you’re doing that but I can’t read it anymore because I never know what to say to you. I don’t know how to get through to you anymore. I can sit here and read your poetry and be like well I’m glad that you’re getting your emotions out in one way but at the same time I don’t know if you’re still S.I or not.I want to be here for you and I’ll always be your friend but right now I can’t jeopardized my own recovery. Things are really starting to go really well and if something happens, I don’t want to be at the point where I’d go back to how I used to cope. I’m trying to move on from that part of my life.-L”
I never went to L for help ever
so i dunno what the heck he’s talking about
i dispize ppl like this!!!!
I’m pretty ticked off 2!!
Someone said that to you? I understand where they’re coming from, but I also know that’s a hard thing to hear, especially from someone you really trust and care about. Finding a friend that’s safe to open up to is very hard, and hearing things like that just make it harder to open up to others in the future. I had a close friend freak out and refuse to talk to me after she found out about my SI which really upset me. I also know that it’s hard to have friends that self injure especially when you yourself are trying to recover, so I’ve dealt with both sides. Either way it’s rough, and I’m sorry you have to deal with it on top of everything else.
~Kat~