Gawd. My parents drive me crazy. Well not so much my mom… it’s mostly my dad. Ever since my last boyfriend, He hasn’t trusted me, its BS. I hate it. I haven’t given him a reason not to trust me.Sometimes I think that S.I. would make him love me, make him want to help. It would get his attention. He hates the fact Im on anti depressants cause he thinks Im happy, more like he thinks I need to be stronger. Im weak and I know Im weak. He seems to hate me and I dont know what to do to change his mind about me…. What should I do? How do I show him I love him? How do I make him love me and trust me agian?I just dont know what to do!
Act like your true self. You dont need to S.I. to make him love you.
that will make him worry constantly about you. That would be like annoying for me. Cuz my mom knows and shes acting annoying to me. Like i cant be trusted. So ypu dont need to S.I. If you feel its the way to get his attention go on ahead. but i really think you shouldnt.Be strong no matter what. Ciao! ~Jay-Jay
In my opinion it’s stupid to S.I. for attention its about pain. If u need something from your father talk to him, dont S.I. it is just going to make him mad. ive S.I. since 15, but im trying to stop. ur parents r never going leave u alone, S.I will give them reason not to trust u. just be urself dont S.I if ur not S.I dont start. im sorry if ur not getting sympthany but it looks like you need someone to tell you how it is. how old u 14-15 im 19 ive lived longer. yes i have promblems. but dont do it 4 attention okay.
i kno what u mea, both my parents drive my crazy, they dont kno i SI, and im glad they dont, i seriously recommend u dont start, the scars arent worth it, and some friends might get freked out and leave u….and i kno what u mean about no trust, my dad actually checks every call i make on my cell phone bill, and im not aloud out by myself, but SI wont get the kind of attention u want, it will only make him trust you even less and restrict ur privileges.