Today one of my friends noticed my arm and asked me what I did to it. I said, “Something” and changed the subject. I’m afraid she’ll tell on me now because I told her mom when she joked about committing suicide. If she tells now, my life will be ruined I think. I think that she probably will, but I really don’t want her to. Should I tell her the truth about what I’m doing, and that I’m trying to stop but it’s kind of addictive like smoking? I think that would make her more apt to tell, like she wants me to get help… I don’t know… what do you guys think? Has anyone ever told on you?
dont worry, talk to one of your other friends and i bet shell cover for you 🙂
ashleigh you are one of my other friends…
dont worry, im always here for u and wont put u through that u know ill help u cover
I don’t know if i want to cover anymore… i’m really thinking about telling now… like a lot… maybe it’s better to just tell someone finally… i dont know
telling people may only make matter worse….get bad things to happen…..ur friends can and will help you get through this….when my mom first saw like back in 5th grade, she sent me to a shrink and it only made matters worse
friends are what make things better:)
i dont know … im going to cry now… i can’t help it… i don’t know sometime i’m just going to blurt it out i know it…
hey plez dont cry….ull make me cry!!! look u know that no amtter what ill help u through all this…i will always be here…im not going anywhere and u and i will get through this together 🙂
what if she tells?
ill cover for u!! u know im good at that 🙂 i got ur back!
Me, personally I would tell someone, because in the end you would only be hurting yourself. And think about the people who care about you. I think your friend wouldn’t tell your mom if she didn’t care. Believe me, I’ve been the same place you have been and i have freaked out when my friends have called my parents. But in the end i realized the only reason they did it was because they loved and cared about me and didn’t want to see me hurt and suffer!! So please make the right choice! 🙂
if u think ur parents are going to be told, tell them urself before anyone else, because ur honesty will help diffuse the situation. i have a few friends who know, adn the reason they arent tellign is because they no im trying, and they know im ok enough with myself go go to them if the urges get too strong. my parents know, and im going to get help now, and i think seeign someone who has experience in this kind of thing mite be helpful. thats just my opinion though
if ur friend tells, its just cause they want to help, so dont get to upset it they end up telling, they are jsut trying to do the best thing for u.