im dating this girl who i love very much shes helped me relize how pointless it was to injure myselfand helped me through one of the hardest times of my life the only thing is that she also injures herself because of family issues
her father has abused her for most of her life and continues to now
i feel bad that i cant help her stop SI
and that i cant really do anything to help her with her family problems.
does any one have any advice as to what i can do to help her quit and show her that i care about her?
i just want to be able to help her as much as she’s helped me
well im going threw the same thing kind of, i was abused by my moms boyfriend for quite a bit. u should sit her down, and explane to her tht she is precious, and that she isn’t lonely cause she’s got u! just hug her and tell her how beautiful she is, and the impact she has done in yourlife. ask her how she might explane the scarrs to her children when she has them,
sorry if this does not make any sense, just trying to help
tell her that she’s not alone and to remember that you’ve been there and you want to help. tell her things that will make her happier than usual so she wont cut herself.
awww if she saw that it would make her day trust me, i know the feeling. find out what makes her SI (triggers) and give her least amount of contact with her triggers! tell her u luv her! XD